What do you think about of being take the 1st move?
Well, for me, is either one in the bg relationship have to take the 1st move. Is either the guy or the girl have to make the move. Say hi, flirt, hugging and kissing. This kind of things it won’t just blink and happen, it won’t like ding, is time to do it and happen. It always have to be one them to show the initiative to do that. Like the old Chinese way, the guy have to ‘ti qing’, by that he can only marry the girl.
For the old generation, maybe is a must for a guy to play that role. Come on, is 21st century now. We have rockets, iPhone and transformer. Who cares is it guy or girl to play that role. Who cares anyway. Most important u got want. Your man or your lady. Love is what you will have.
Maybe I am wrong for being so open minded. Well I am not that extent till that to ask him to be my boyfriend or husband. I think giving hint to a guy is perfectly normal in this y generation society. I know guys are afraid of being hurt just like girls, they are scare of being rejected by a girl. I know, cause as a girl, I feel the same way too. So, guy are waiting for hint. So if a girl give hint, take the 1st move, show that she is interested to that guy, is that a problem here? We are doing what you guys want? Any problem here?
I am in total shock when I heard ppl say that if a girl take the1st move she is so cheap. Total SHOCK. Haha. Mean we have to sit and wait for guy to approach. We sit here and wait for love to fall down from sky. We sit here and wait for a relationship? What if someone like me, not that pretty, not that outstanding, easily forgotten, easily being ignored. Is that mean I have to be alone for rest of my life? Not even stand a chance?
Okay, I won’t! Atleast I will try to know him if I want to. There is only one time to live, don’t make yourself regret. Regret will not make your life better.
P.S kinda tired, a lot of grammar mistake :)